How to write

Just about everyone I talk to is an aspiring writer.  I’ve also noticed that many aspiring writers don’t actually write.  They aspire to write, one day, when the kids are older or grown, when they can afford to work part time, or when they’ve retired from the 9 to 5 grind.  Sadly, the perfect day to write never comes and their dreams are unrealized.  I’ve often wondered why, because most of these aspiring writers are intelligent, creative, and articulate and they have interesting stories to share.  

Unfortunately very few people achieve all they are capable of, stopped in their tracks by indecision and self doubt.  I know I’ve aspired to more than I’ve achieved because of my insecurities.  There are times when I’ve been able to push through my doubts and produce work I’m proud of. Just as often I avoid facing my fears head on, filling my days with busy work instead of getting busy with the work of writing.

“Success is what happens when you find a way to take positive, effective action, no matter what obstacles may stand in your way. Failure is what happens when you become better at making excuses than at getting results.” 1

Successful people have enormous self belief.  That’s not to say they are arrogant or narcissistic.  They know they have limitations but they are willing to push themselves to achieve more.  If you don’t believe you can achieve your goals, there really is no reason to have them. Set realistic goals, remain flexible and be willing to adjust your course based on results you’re seeing.  A goal to write eight hours a day may only be achievable if you skip sleep or quit your day job. A more realistic goal; to write two hours a day, would be a better place to start.

“Success is the consequence of certain specific thoughts, attitudes and efforts, and failure results from other thoughts, attitudes and efforts. Every moment is leading you to some very real, very specific results. And every moment, with the thoughts, attitudes and actions you choose, you can determine just what those results will be — success or failure.” 1

Successful people don’t settle into a comfort zone where compliance kills momentum.   Instead they live outside of their comfort zones, taking action and risks.  There is no place more uncomfortable for me then right here: with my thoughts and my insecurities on display for the world to judge.  Some days I am courageous and some days I am afraid, but I show up and write everyday.

1. Success Leaves Clues: The Liberty Zone, June 13, 2009.

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